Thursday, December 6, 2012

Shades of my life...


In this fast paced life , we usually hang up with a bunch of colleagues.
Its them with whom we spend  maximum amount of time of our day.
Its them who know us, our mistakes, our behavior, our work strategy,
if our luck is good, we find a good friend in them. A team member, a Colleague Could be a good friend, (i know it hardly happens).
When one of my very close friend/colleague decided to resign , i was shaken.
Eventually i found out it was hard for me because firstly i was a freshbie, and she was like a guide to me.
a role model i could say. I had almost adapted her style of working( You learn from people around you).

When i discussed about this to many of my friends, they said , it happens, this is life, this is how you learn,
Stop getting connected to people, stop getting involved with colleagues, forget it, move on, oh ! come-on don't be an emo now  and blah balh..... All i know is i miss her.

My question is , is this what we are taught about living a life. Are we supposed to be on our own always?
Is life about not being connected with people around us?
And more over Why do we meet people, if we are not meant to be with them.

Such a childish question i know!

But i am still in search for the answer.....

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  2. Yeah. Nice question
    But perhaps we meet people because we are not complete on our own, we meet them to share few things. We meet them to learn few things. Some become our guide, some become our friends. Life is not easy with them but again sometimes life can be hard with them. It is the people we meet, the experiences we share and the things that happened have something of value among them.:)

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  3. 'Why do we meet people, if we are not meant to be with them.'

    Y do u eat wen u kno dat it wil b thrown out:) U shud kno da fact dat wen u eat al dose ingrdients play different role at different places until it gets ejected:) so in da same way v meet many ppl on our jurnee f life.. who has deir own roles to play.. like a friend, filosofer, guide ditcher and many relations... Jus its al about learning n understanding the way thins cum in life hoping fo da betta ones in future to cum:)

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    1. @Just math mathalli :) Such a nice way of explaining things.. :) m so delighted with your comment..thank you so much...

      Yes,, We meet people to learn from them.. :)
      we Meet people to Create memories :)

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