8 things being in IT field has taught us

1. Make friends : making friends at work place makes you a happy person. Its the place where you spend half of your day at. There's no fun otherwise.

2. Patience : of course learning to deal with people has taught us what not. Right from controlling our anger or stopping ourselves from punching others into faces to hard time at work  place for pending leave approvals , terrible teammates, less/no hike. Everything has got to do with having patience. If you know how to have one you are almost there.

3. People management : yes, you meet different people. And people with different flavours. Stingy, fun loving, serious kind, movies planners, angry ones, stupid ones, technically strong ones, problem Creators , foodies, the competition buffs . There's no end to the list.. The knack is to learn to deal with each of them.
 4. Being shameless : Yes, you get hungry, and you hop on to someones tiffin like its yours. Sweet @ desk , and it does not mean just 1 piece. Team lunch , and you eat like you don't get to eat the other normal days.

And bday cakes, they vanish like superman.

5.Sleeping anywhere: Major number of people travel a long distance to office, and specially in metro cities. Your learn to sleep anywhere, any time. "Chalo thoda time hai, soo lun". LOL.

6.Fridays: Learning True meaning of Friday. Fridays are fun. You wait for friday right from monday. They are so special, you treat yourself with some special treat on this day, or if not that, you plan to leave early/ travel. Fridays are fridays :) 

7.And then Tea: weather you drink tea or not, you take a tea break. They are essential and your day is filled with many of them. Your tea buddies are important, and one cannot deny if any of them invites,"Haan yar chal, Lekin panch minute me wapis ayenge."[comes back after 30mins].

8. Trying to be healthy: Yes, admit it.[Not freshers] You are worried of your increasing weight, dark circles, hair loss, eyes , back pain. You try to make changes in routine every now and then. Gym, control over food, yoga, jogging blah blah...and LOL. You try to do it. and keep trying.and suddenly Team lunch is announced.

hehe.... please comment with you experiences too.... or if you want to criticize, on any point, You are a team lead or above. :P

Dear best friend

I suddenly started to write about you, not sure why. But i am very clear about the contents.

I am thankful to have met you.
Yes you are unbearable at times and i accept you.
Yes you are there for me at any point of time. distance doesnot matter.
Yes you know even the minutest  thing that has happend to me.
Yes at times you do not even have a clue of whts going on with me, but thats ok, we'll have sync up sessions soon.
Yes i am super happy with your achievements.
Yes your thinking and approach totally inspires me.
Yes the G-Talks , they satisfy me.
Yes, You are dumb at times,
And unbelievable too,
Your fashion statement is my book of reference,
And those tips and tricks you give, luv them,
And at times when i am mad at you, and you let me breath and get back to you,
Yes, i love that space,
And yes, when you listen to me(tears in my eyes),
And when i call you up saying "I quit", aww your "Pagal hai kya?"
And the kind of critic you are,A BITCH
And when i need medical advice :P
and the times you pamper me with shopping,
Yes you have crooked tooth with a flat nose and a hot head,
but  you are my bestie :P :)

I ,Me and My silliness..

I love talking to people. What i love is to explore different kinds of people.

It interests me.I am very observant. And what i notice is ,their approach to problems,  their needy greedy life's struggles, and their dreams, aspirations,and like what makes them happy.

Back of my mind, i go out of reach. I am looking for what i am going to be? I interact with people to know them is actually to know what i am doing is right? I interact to feel the connect. And any day, if i don get a good company, it scares me.

I am not scared , but, if i don't have company, i become less curious, and my thoughts almost kill me.
What am i? Why do i waste all my day if i get a bad thought in the morning. Or why do i depend on others appreciation. Is it that i am totally dependent on others? or is it that i am just too weak.

Listing out different kinds of people :

• The Over enthusiast's: I love to be around enthusiastic people. Like, a basic Positive person could be less complaining, or positive in nature. some one with good habits and interesting pastimes. I observe such people for their Zeal, and try to pick their flavor.

• The Self-involved:Thinking on how involved one could get , or for that matter self-involved, What could the persons ultimate goal be? just be self involved and achieve nothing. Does it make them contented or give self confidence. Or do they just do not care of the world outside. I mean, don't they need enough friends or family. What do they do when they want to cry out loud? I hate these types.

• The Sadists:For the sadists in my life, i love to observe what could possibly make them sad? Even a silliest reason would ruin their day. Bet you such people are contagious. And i take it as a challenge to deal with such people . The best part about being sadists is , it makes me feel Happy :) i mean Happier.

• The boring ones:OMG , i mean these are the people who do exactly same thing , as if they have been put on the loop, or and are run the same script daily. Get up , Do same things and repeat. i am usually amused to see such people.they are unbelievably doing same thing .

• The Critics: These are filled with negativity. Any thing and everything you talk, be , convey, they have negative comment on it...And if you start talking negative about anything, they have to be on the positive end . Just the opposite side of you. Grr .. the annoying ones.

•  The Artists: The creative heads are awesome people. They are motivating, and they always know when to do what. I just love their thought process, the  whole motto of their lives is to inspire, create ,live and be happy. These are hardworking and live with content.

• The Hot heads: Anything you utter could make them angry. You sit in your spot and that would make them angry, You be a sweetest person on the earth n still these people will be Super angry. Don't be sorry, nothing can make them normal, Once a hot head always a hot head. Ignore them.
• The curious ones: I love them too, They , with their cute lil eyes, keep wondering how things work, why is something not working, Why is a particular rule applied n blah blah. Their whys, hows n where's and whens never end. Although some times annoying, I prefer these kind of people over many other category of people.

There are 100 other category of people i am yet to meet and script about, While i keep observing and noting down,  Be generous to drop in a  comment and let me knw how you like/ dislike this post.

Be observant, Keep Smiling :)

Me , myself and my silliness.